Compensation

Honest and clear

What it is worth to you

I do this out of passion, not for the money. A session does take preparation, attention and aftercare. That is why I work with a voluntary contribution afterwards. As an indication: the usual contribution is €100.

  • Can you spare more? Then you make it possible for me to also welcome people who can't.

  • Can you spare less? Give what fits. Nothing is fine too. This is set up precisely for you.

You give afterwards, at a moment that suits you. I never ask why.

Because money doesn't decide whom I meet, I am selective. I only meet a limited number of people, so everyone receives my full attention.

The location

A session takes place at your home or at a neutral location, such as a hotel or an SM venue. For some, home actually feels safest: you don't have to be seen anywhere in public. If you choose a neutral location, those costs are yours. Would you like me to arrange it, or are you looking for a place that fits your budget? Just ask.

Special requests

If a session requires special materials, lasts exceptionally long or means I have to travel far, we agree on a separate fee for that in advance. It is separate from your contribution. You always know beforehand where you stand.

What you get

A session is more than the time we spend together. It also includes:

  • Preparation. Designing the session, selecting the right implements and creating an atmosphere suited to your experience and wishes.

  • Communication. Keeping in contact between our initial contact and our session.

  • Discretion. Secure communications, confidentiality agreements if required, and absolute privacy.

  • Aftercare. Closure, reflection and emotional support after each session.

  • Continuity. Should our bond deepen, we keep refining rituals and dynamics, tailored to you.

Discreet payment

A fee for special requests is paid in advance. Your contribution is given afterwards. Both can be in cash or through a secure, anonymous method.